Be a Gift to Others

          As human beings, one of our basic needs is to be in contact with others. Life is a give and take reality. I always believe in the saying that " No man is an island". Life is a reciprocal relationship in which we invest in ourselves and we acknowledge the presence of the other person. Thus in relation to this, we can ask ourselves "How could we, in our own way, be gifts to others?" 

         Some of the ways that we can realise this is through the following: practicing empathy, listening actively, showing kindness and generosity, offering encouragement and support, sharing knowledge and skills, being realiable and trustworthy.

          On practicing empathy, learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes. By so doing, this allows you to understand his perspectives, experiences and feelings. Aside from this, also learn how to extend genuine concern and compassion to his well being.  On listening actively, assimilate to be free from any bias and never put judgment on the other person. When situation allows you, consciously give support and validation while keeping away from suggesting any solution. 

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         On showing kindess and generosity, keep yourself away from making any judgment and bias even if you are tempted to do so. Being generous of your time is such an honourly act that it results a smile on him. Just complimenting someone of a job well done could be a simple thing but for the other person, it may be a big deal. On the other hand, on times of difficulties, master the art of extending affirmation and words of relief. 

          Meanwhile, being able to share your knowledge and skills could result to being an invaluable thing to others. Becoming a companion to other's journey results positively since it is a relief to realise that we have a shoulder to lean on to make the load lighter.